You Are Such A Spoilsport !

Is it a must, traditionally, customary to 'sabo' the couple during their wedding day/banquet ?

Is it necessary to play prank & embarass the couple in front of all their relatives and other friends ?

Is it always a/some 'sabo' then is considered a memorable wedding for the couple ?

Is it the couple's fault when he/she decline such initiative that was sincerely plan by his/her friends who meant well to add to the atmosphere of the wedding ?

Is it the bride/groom's fault to get a lifetime partner who turn out to be so serious who will not entertain to such 'sabo' request ?

I thought the best gift to give to your friend on his/her wedding day or night is your greatest blessing & attendance plus to ensure he/she look their very best throughout their wedding instead of 'malu-ing' them ?

Or is it my usual jovial character, evil straits, has made people think that I am easy going and sporty all the time..... which I'm really am (most of the time!).

You can imagine how his/her heart sank, right from heaven of happiness plunging straight into hell of deep dark ocean that very second when he/she decline the 'sabo' and his/her whole table friends fell into dead silence and wore crest fallen faces.

He/she had RUINED his/her OWN wedding at that very second. 30 mins where he/she can close one of his/her most important chapter in his/her life.

Probably the words used to decline the offer were too harsh that turned the friends off. But verbal communications and email correspondences had stated clearly that the partner will not buy such entertainment ! And no one expect they still came prepared.

Oh well, he/she may had thought too hard & mistaken his/her friend's intention on the 'sabo'. They could have meant well.... The 'sabo' could have been their true and 100% sincerity for the couple. He/she could had been such a 小人 and talking bad about his/her friends here.

Whatever it is, the damage had been done and there is nowhere to mend this wonderful chapter of the couple's, no matter how fine this crack is.

You are such a spoilsport who ruined your own wedding that you have painstakingly planned for the past few months - just by being quick tempered, blunt and straightforward.

You have to learn to curb your bad behaviour despite causing so many hurtful incidents in the past and you still dun learn from mistake.

This is your retribution for always pouring evil onto people surrounding you.